She's just... a mature singer for her age, you know?

Now that we've got the chat thing and the comments, a question (also, my life is boring at the moment - at least, from your point of view).
My mom stated, mildly drunk after my graduation, that "girls who chase after you don't matter - it's the ones you chase after". Which I thought was an interesting point. So - are the best boyfriends/girlfriends those you've pursued or been pursued by?

Currently listening to: "Fall to pieces" - Avril Lavigne